I woke up to love,  I learn to love because  In order to live, I needed to love.    Love is like a flame that burns in you. Love is life fuel and essence of humanity  Love makes life worth living. So in order to live you have to love.     Waking up to love and living the life of love makes you love the life you are living   Please bear with me I am not a poet and it took me 100 hours to even be able to post this because I keep feeling like this is not good enough  

There are a lot of reasons why people choose to be a writer my am about to share mine, using this formula: WHEN,WHY,WHICH,WHAT,WHO and HOW. WHEN I really did not know when I wanted to be a writer to be exact, I always love telling stories and they were mostly made up by me. And this always made me very happy whenever I tell my stories to my friends and they listen and enjoy it. Until my friend said to me "don't you think it would be better for you to write your story so that we can always get to read it after" and that is how the motivation for writing came up. During my final days in secondary school especially during filling my jamb form, I decided that I wanted to study theatre and film studies because I wanted to be a scriptwriter I would have really loved if my stories were brought to Life by actors that was my WHEN I started writing  and I will keep writing because my stories are yet to be viewed as a movie. WHY Why I continue to write is because I wanted people to view my stories and enjoy them just like my friends did. Writing some few stories got me to know that writing can be like a fuel when poured on fire, you know how it can get when that happens. This very situation happens only when you know what you're doing because the moment I start writing everything just flows and that's why I continued writing because I never struggled about writing to pages of something interesting and I have lots of voices in my head like I normally say I have like three friends in my head because they told me what to do to keep going but then it's just me at the end of the day with my friends in my head. I write because it makes me happy to read my work and I also write because I am very hopeful that someday in the future my stories would be acted.  WHICH: WHICH ICON, EVENTS, EMOTIONS, MADE YOU START WRITING.  I have never had an icon, there haven't been any event but I can say my friends inspired me to start writing and sometimes it's just more than them inspiring me because I also needed a zeal to keep going and I found that, which is wanting to become a script writer especially when I wanted to watch my stories come to Life by actors because whenever I think about my stories before I tell them to my friends I visualize them, I dream about them and it feels so real to me.  WHAT: WHAT TYPE OF WRITING DO I WANT TO FOCUS ON.  I had always wanted to focus on script writing but after starting this class that I am currently on, I decided to broaden my horizons which means I am also trying to focus on creative writing, script writing, and probably ghost writing.  WHO: who inspired me to start writing.  Just like I have said earlier I never had an icon that inspired me to start writing it's just me and my friends. But I have also called across some beautiful writers and I have read some books too. This writers/authors inspired me to be a better writer HOW: HOW DO I GET TO MY ATTAINED HEIGHT IN WRITING.  Honestly I am still trying to figure that out but I am believing strongly that I will definitely get the because I am following through the right steps by attending the classes and listening to people who have gone far in writing teach me how to get there so with the determination and zeal a better writer is definitely going to get me to my attained height because I believe that I am doing the right thing I just need to get away from the distraction and place my focus on what I have to do to be better so I believe I'm getting there.      My name is TABAH BERNICE and I have a goal of being a better writer and it is something I have set for myself this year 2025 and with the help of whoever would be reading this, I would definitely get there so if you do read this best believe that you are marking my journey today as a writer

What is the best part of being a girl?  Being a girl is actually amazing and if I am going to be very honest I love being a girl. I would always want to be a girl.  I honestly feel like being a girl is easier and the best part of being a girl for me is......... let me just go ahead and say it. it is the privilege that I get for being a girl smiling   I was once asked, what would I do if I was a boy for a day.  My answer was mostly about how it feels to have a dick because I am just curious to know how it feels to have it. Honestly I feel like men struggle most and I do not want to be among that and that is why I appreciate all of them that do their best But that doesn't change about my feelings of me being a girl because why not, with a lot of privileges that I enjoy a lot . I know a lot of persons have their reasons and that is why I want to throw out the question and I hope I get replies from different girls to know what is the best part of them being a girl .  

In most cases, it has been said that overthinking doesn't help you to solve the problem. it just makes you waste more time but there are times where overthinking helps you get over the problem and I am also thinking that the main issue should be you thinking deep and out of the box.  How far and how best do you think?? from my own personal experience, I don't get to think too much because it doesn't help me to get the work done so I just go ahead and sleep over it then I work to achieve the work later on.  I also know that I cannot say the same for a different person so it makes me curious, do you overthink or you just watch it happen? ? I have also gotten to learn that one gets to overthink over a situation when they don't have control over it so it makes you overthink. overthinking helps you to see the deeper meaning and also makes you to jump into conclusion without getting into proper details. so it works and also doesn't work.  A lot of persons claim that they are an overthinker, to some of them, they just want to sound cool when they say that. Being an overthinker does not make you sound cool, but being a critical thinker can make you sound cool.  What exactly makes you overthink?? Most people can overthink over the most irrelevant things just because they cannot stop obsessing about it and you can also be an overthinker and still miss the point. people over think about relationships boyfriends, people over think about the Bible how it is written and what was written in it, people of a thing about the naming of things. just like I said people over think over the most irrelevant things.  Being a critical thinker makes you to see things differently and make you so act on things differently and better than an overthinker.  Not everybody can be a critical thinker, so it is totally okay for you to overthink and it is also very okay if you still cannot solve the problem. Nobody should hate herself or himself for thinking too much or obsessing over a thing, some would say it is a disorder or a medical issue but you should also know that you are not alone, there are varieties of people who overthink about things that don't even matter things like how to keep a spoon on a table or in the cup. I am writing this today because I met someone who felt like she is weird because she over thinks about the littlest things and I got motivated to write just to encourage others that they are not alone and it is not a big deal for them to overthink over anything. but it is also very good that they should know that in most cases, them overthinking doesn't always solve the issue but it can also be the cause of another problem altogether. It is always better to ask questions to clear out any misunderstanding so you wouldn't have any reason to overthink about it

"A lot of things happened and I believe we cannot just convict the girls because of the murder" said investigator Cecelia . You don't have to be sentimental here Cecilia because that did what they did and they were very aware of it and that is why they never reported to the police.  I am not trying to defend them but you wouldn't exactly blame them. According to them, he was still alive when they ran away from the house.  So are you suggesting that someone else finished him up or he died because no one called for help. Well I think you know the answer to that question. I am sorry Cecilia but those girls knew what they were doing and we are going to lock them up.  *** "Mr ola" called out by and employee , " there is actually something you really need to see because someone just came up to the police to report that some group of guys came into the house" " What do you mean by some group of boys came into the house?? whose house are we talking about here? " Asked Mr Ola " I'm talking about the deceased house, so which means the girls did not exactly killed him"  " So how are we going to believe that it is the unknown guys you mentioned that killed him ?". Mrs Cecilia has gone in with others to bring them in for questioning. " Okay, let's just wait until they are questioned before we start throwing out accusations" *** " Cecilia", called out Mr Ola," what have you found out from the guys you were questioning?? "They said , that they only went into the man's house to get back there money he was owing because he refused to pay them for a job they did for him when they met struggling but before they could do anything he died" replied Cecelia  " So how is that making them criminals or having an intent to kill him"? We dont even know who is saying the truth here, so they are going to be detained because they are suspect of murder.  So what happened to the girls?? What will happen to the guys?? What happened??