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"Silent Scars: How Male Child Abuse Hurts Us All" Society tells boys to “Man up,” silencing millions of male survivors of child abuse. While girls’ protection is prioritized, boys who endure rape or molestation face disbelief, shame, or jokes. The Sad Truth is that Broken Boys never really MAN UP . We seem to not realize as humans , as parents, as women and society that we Pay the Price for this misguided act whether or not we like it . Because for every Broken Boy we let Grow Up , we add one more Broken Man to our world . Tomorrow we wonder , why the steady influx of psycho men, broken relationships, and the cycle of pain we rarely discuss . This issue may not be all there is to it , but this surely is huge part of it . Personally, I have garnered over the years Shattering stories like ; - A mentor of mine few years ago, who was raped by his maid as a child, he spent decades frightening away from intimacy. - Also a good friend of mine, who was molested by his spiritual leader in church as a teenager . He still struggles to trust anyone. Dear Reader, Their stories aren’t rare, they’re only the tip of an iceberg. But sadly the cycle continues because we continue to have, 1. Neglectful Parents: Absent guardians leave boys vulnerable to predators (maids, mentors, relatives). 2. Toxic Stereotypes: “Boys can’t be victims” and “men always want sex” silence survivors. 3. Failed Systems: Churches, schools, and laws often protect abusers, not victims. 4. Cultural Taboos: In Africa and beyond, male pain is seen as weakness. This Issue keeps digging in like Cankerworms, today we have; - Difficult Friendships: Survivors isolate themselves, fearing judgment. - Traumatized Mindsets: Shame fuels anger, addiction, or emotional numbness. - Failing Marriages: Intimacy becomes terrifying—60% of male survivors avoid relationships (2020 study). - Broken Faith: Abuse by spiritual leaders destroys trust in God and community. I think it's high time we collectively make efforts to fix this mess gradually through; 1. Open Talks: Share survivor stories (MenToo) to break stigma. 2. Reform Systems: - Laws must recognize male rape. - Churches/schools need strict anti-abuse policies. 3. Teach Early: Kids need lessons on consent, boundaries, and how to report abuse. 4. Support Survivors: Free therapy hotlines and peer groups to combat loneliness. 5. Parent Better: Fathers, model vulnerability. Moms, listen without judgment. Pleading Finally to us all , I say: This isn’t just a “male problem.” Every silenced boy becomes a man fighting invisible battles. Let’s rewrite the rules: - To parents: Let your son cry. His pain is valid. - To leaders: Protect people, not reputations. - To survivors: You are not broken. Healing is possible. “The wound is not your fault, but the healing is your right.” SEIZE that Right , don't betray your chance at a Happy Life . I love you! Want to add your voice? Share a line, statistic, or personal touch to make this resonate deeper. Let’s keep it human, urgent, and hopeful. I remain Gift EdeAni, I Pitch, I Speak and I Impact lives with words . #GiftEdeAni #Day4ConsistencyChallenge #ChildAbuse #Writer #SpokenWordArtist #Thoughtleader #Peddlon